Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Plans for the holiday!!

Dah lama kan keluarga kita tak pergi bercuti???
Since abang n akak masuk asrama...dah jarang dapat pergi bercuti macam dulu...
Uhh, swimming and then makan maggie! Nyum2! seronok perasaan tuh...
Well~ kat sini pun iman blh swim..ngeh3...

Anyway..back to the main topic...
Iman nak plan untuk holiday akhir tahun nih..since this is the only year I will have this much of holiday!!...
Okay....so...on the 26th of November, mama n baba akan datang Clayton...to my place...
I've not yet planned any activities for you guys except berjalan kaki ke Monash UNi!! Haha.. You must feel it! Yeah~...
Ok, then... balik M'sia in about 5 n 6 Disember..just on time for Hari Raya! Wuhu..
Then I do not know what is gonna happen next...

But anyway, kalau kakak n k.sue ada cuti.....nak pergi jalan2!! Langkawi lagi?~ Dulu Iman tak dapat pergi..not fair!! Ataupun pergi pulau?~...Haha..semuanya kena naik ferry, but tak de orang ocean sick kan?...
K la...paling jauh kita pergi ke Padang!! Or Bandung... Baba kata tahun lepas nak bawak satu keluarga ke sana....bila lagi kannn..............

Okay, please respond okay!...boring la...

.....sambung study....(-_-)'

Wednesday, September 3, 2008

Perubahan Tiada yang Mudah

Syaheedatul Iman...

perubahan diri nyata tiada yang mudah...ia perlu kepada satu target yang jelas, cara yang tersusun, dan sepenuhnya ia memerlukan usaha gigih dan tindakan yang istiqamah atau bersusulan..semua ini, kita namakan MUJAHADAH.

bagaimana utk kita usaha melakukan satu perubahan? sama ada pada diri kita sendiri, atau pada sekitarnya? abg cuba ungkit semula apa yang abg pernah dengar dahulu...

Ibnu Qayyim dalam kitab dia Zaadul Ma'ad ada menggariskan cara2 utk mengadakan mujahadah:
- The struggle to learn guidance and the religion of the truth
- The struggle to work with this guidance
- The struggle inviting to the truth
- Be patient with the people

Semua ini saling sangkut paut antara satu...they must be applied, hand in hand..yes.

Struggle to learn guidanc and religion...tidak dapat tidak, kita perlukan pengisian ilmu kedalam jiwa nurani kita..kerana di situ baru kita terlihat, dan tersedar, kearah mana target kita sepatutnya...dan tahap bagaimana sepatutnya kita berubah..
pernah tak iman belajar something (ilmu agama) and all the sudden, iman terdetik "hemm...aku tidak macam ini, aku perlu menjadi seperti ini..." or "wow..I need to do this..be like this.." so on so forth..
abg rasa, tentu sekali iman pernah..sebab tu iman selalu terdetik utk berubah.

now, once you've noticed the correct path, the guidance, you must immediately do the following step... "The struggle to work with the guidance..."
The struggle to work with the 'ilm is nevertheless a much more difficult step. You MUST, have a commitment...you must train your self to always think of the guidance and you must help your self out, in maintaining your position in the circle of the guidance.

For example..kalau iman nak ubah diri dari segi menjaga percakapan, kerana iman faham bercakap ini kebanyakannya membangkitkan dosa..jadi ilmu ni memperlihatkan kepada iman, kearah itu iman perlu berubah. So to struggle to work with this guidance, iman mula train diri utk kekal dalam keadaan yang kurang bercakap (kosong), sentiasa memperingatkan diri utk berjaga2..dan teruskan training utk tidak mengingkari target iman yang ini. Commitment ini sangat penting...kalau dapat maintain for some few moments, kita akan dpt maintain utk masa2 yang seterusnya..

Next is the struggle inviting the truth. After the 1st two steps, try making sure that you are working with the true path, the right person, the right mood. ini boleh juga dilakukan dgn cara, memastikan kita dalam golongan yg baik2..atau golongan yang benar. Bila kita realize kita terjebak dalam golongan yang tidak baik, segera kita struggle utk mencari yang benar. So pada contoh tadi, kita nak berubah dgn percakapan...tapi kita tidak mampu memanggil keadaan yang benar kepada diri kita, atau membawa diri kita kepada the truth.
In other hand, this also means that we make sure we lead our selves and the people we are with, to the truth that we are targetting. So iman, you shape the surrounding, you shape the environment, kita bina suasana (dan kawan-kawan kita)...

Lastly, be patient with the people... setiap perubahan yang kita ingin lakukan, pasti ada sahaja halangan yang didepannya...yang peling keras halangannya nanti, tentu sekali datangnya dari THE PEOPLE. Mengutuk perubahan kita, memperkecilkan kita, mengajak kembali kepada yang jahil... maka, bersabarlah...dan terus sabar..

kenangkan seerah silam, kenangkan perjuangan ulama' dan imaam kita yg terdahulu...bagaimana mereka struggle utk terus dgn yang benar...bagaimana mereka mampu mengubah dunia...insyaAllah jadilah ini sebagai kayu ukur utk kita contohi.

paling mudah, cari seorang kawan yg punyai contoh perubahan yg ingin kita lakukan, and put him/her as a benchmark.

Semoga Allah bantu dan permudahkan.

yang juga ingin berubah,

abang

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Susahnya...

Susahnya nak berubah..
Bila la Iman nak mature..

Tak sabar nak jadi lebih baik...tak sabar nak jadi muslimah solehah..tak sabar nak jadi Mak cik!!.. =D

Hmm...Rasulullah kuat, kita pun mesti kuat! Jadi ummatnya yg dirindui..

Monday, July 28, 2008

in reply to your green day experience, iman

salam wbt..

abg juga pernah lalui yang sama..di US, mereka sambut bermacam2 lagi, which I assure you will come accross in near future.

satu darinya ialah St. Patricks day. On this particular day, students will dress in green. Well it's not the same green-day as you've mentioned Iman, this color is the trend brought by the Irish (who terribly drinks a lot!) immitating the shamrock-leave color.



The tradition is to drink as much as they want during this one-day celebration. At the end of the day, we have hundreds of drunks and hundreds more crime to be added. How insane is that. But it comes back to the insanity of seeing our people, malay people, geeting involved! Now that's even more insane.

I pitty these people who have themselves ZERO value in life. Mak Ayah hantar anak di KLIA, with all the tears, but without notice, their 'anak emas' is being involved in heinous acts. Its so sad that you could no more influence these people into looking back at their Islamic life in Malaysia, their culture, so on so forth.

But mind you, who's not to be blamed but the Malaysian system itself? where morals are no more stressed, betullah...mereka sering mengajar pepatah lama "masuk kandang kambing mengembek, masuk kandang harimau mengaum.." and so there you go!

Semoga Allah beri kekuatan utk Iman di sana..dan pegang teguhlah pada pendirian asas kita, hidup utk beribadah kepada Allah.

insan baru lahir ke bumi

salam wbt.



alhamdulillah tempoh hari, makcik ruby melahirkan seorang bayi perempuan yang cukup besar dan comel! Tahniah buat Pakcik Mi dan Isteri.

K.sue sempat ziarah mereka di hospital dan sempat snap satu picture. Dengan berat 3.5 kg dan kulit merah pink, abang rasa mmg baby ni baby cute of the year!:)


insyaAllah minggu ni abang akan balik lagi ke kuantan utk bantu tok kemas rumah, bagi persediaan mak Dah kahwin. So sempat la abg jumpe baby (to be named) dan main2 dgn dia dulu.
Oh yer Iman, gmbr scan k.sue tu, nanti abg email pada iman.

sekian dahulu,

abang

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Allahyarham...

Hari ini merupakan hari peringatan kematian setelah Nyang kembali menghadap Allah...
Semoga rohnya ditempatkan di kalangan orang2 yang soleh, dan zuriat2nya yang soleh dapat menyambung amalan pahala untuknya.....

Allahumma aghfirlahu, warhamhu, wa'afihi wa'afu 'anhu...Ameen...

Isk3~ orang kafir yang sesat

Today I saw 2 stupid and crazy men wearing nothing on top of a lecture building...
It was not my intention to see them, but I was attracted to see what was the crowd about...
And so I saw them...but luckily it was just a sight seeing from far...
My friends who were in the other group had lecture before my group, said that 9 "unclothed" men went into the lecture room...'passing by' infront of the lecture hall...Yeah, I thought it was disgusting and even rude!
Don't know what the occasion was..but I think something to do with being 'NATURAL'...Green day something, dont really understand and dont care.
Euw!
Hope I wont meet those kinds of people after this anymore..

It's quite stressful...Takut nanti dipertanggungjawabkan...